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Post by Lebowski on Oct 24, 2018 9:12:31 GMT -6
Yeah so... I get that some of you guys are jaded and that's cool. But I enjoy what I do for a living and nothing will break my optimism. I just don't believe in that. If I am going to do something, do it right and give 110% everyday. I want to be able to put my head on my pillow and know I am not short changing anyone and that I am doing the best I can do. I think kids pick up on the enthusiasm. maybe i'm jaded....or maybe i just realized very few other people took what stud did as seriously as stud did.... Stud you and I would get along on a staff. I get that there are a bunch of slaps that shouldnt be in this business.
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Post by Lebowski on Oct 24, 2018 9:36:05 GMT -6
People don't realize that our business we can help cause change that is needed in society.
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Post by captainpablo on Oct 24, 2018 9:44:57 GMT -6
Yeah so... I get that some of you guys are jaded and that's cool. But I enjoy what I do for a living and nothing will break my optimism. I just don't believe in that. If I am going to do something, do it right and give 110% everyday. I want to be able to put my head on my pillow and know I am not short changing anyone and that I am doing the best I can do. I think kids pick up on the enthusiasm. Out of curiosity, how old are you, and for how many years have you been coaching?
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Post by Lebowski on Oct 24, 2018 9:46:48 GMT -6
I am 31. Started at 18... as a Student Volunteer through college. This is currently my 14th Season in HS football.
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Post by TOBC on Oct 24, 2018 9:50:25 GMT -6
you coached HS even during your semi-pro days?
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Post by captainpablo on Oct 24, 2018 9:50:51 GMT -6
I am 31. Started at 18... as a Student Volunteer through college. This is currently my 14th Season in HS football. Student volunteer through college? In high school? Where do you coach?
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Post by Lebowski on Oct 24, 2018 9:54:52 GMT -6
OKlahoma.
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Post by Lebowski on Oct 24, 2018 9:56:33 GMT -6
Student volunteer through college? In high school? Where do you coach? they'll let anybody coach in oklahoma.... HAHAHA.
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Post by captainpablo on Oct 24, 2018 9:57:55 GMT -6
As an old guy who's been around a long, long time, I still work hard, and give everything I can to the kids and to this job. However, I have learned the following...
1. Johnny's and Joe's win games in high school, not X's and O's 2. If you think you have more effect on a kid's character than his parents do (or should, anyway), you are bad wrong. 3. The kids you teach/coach are important. But they are NOT nearly as important as your own kids are.
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Post by captainpablo on Oct 24, 2018 9:58:38 GMT -6
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Post by TOBC on Oct 24, 2018 10:02:20 GMT -6
As an old guy who's been around a long, long time, I still work hard, and give everything I can to the kids and to this job. However, I have learned the following... 1. Johnny's and Joe's win games in high school, not X's and O's 2. If you think you have more effect on a kid's character than his parents do (or should, anyway), you are bad wrong. 3. The kids you teach/coach are important. But they are NOT nearly as important as your own kids are. 1. true statement 2. wouldn't say this statement is 100% accurate. there are some that will open up to a coach more than they will their parents. 3. true statement.
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Post by Hands11 on Oct 24, 2018 10:27:01 GMT -6
so oklahoma is allowed to bring kids in on a sunday? that 5pm lift, eating at 6:30 and film is for the birds....stud's got better shlt to do from 5-10 on a sunday..... Totally agree. Not many bring them in on Sunday nights that I've ever heard of. We come in 8-noon on Saturdays. (Kids lift and run at 10). All we do is make sure all break down is done and we are out by noon at the latest. Sunday's we come in at 9 or so, and guys that attend church come in around noon. We game plan until we are done. We are usually out no later than 4pm.
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Post by tcb on Oct 24, 2018 10:30:39 GMT -6
We don't have the kids show up during the weekends. Mostly because most live 20 miles out...but also because weekends are family time, even for them. We don't need to see them until Monday.
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Post by captainpablo on Oct 24, 2018 11:44:23 GMT -6
As an old guy who's been around a long, long time, I still work hard, and give everything I can to the kids and to this job. However, I have learned the following... 1. Johnny's and Joe's win games in high school, not X's and O's 2. If you think you have more effect on a kid's character than his parents do (or should, anyway), you are bad wrong. 3. The kids you teach/coach are important. But they are NOT nearly as important as your own kids are. its true what they say...old people, though slow and dangerous behind the wheel, can still serve a purpose.... "Dumb and Dumber," right?
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Post by acsl8ter on Oct 24, 2018 11:45:42 GMT -6
its true what they say...old people, though slow and dangerous behind the wheel, can still serve a purpose.... "Dumb and Dumber," right? Yep...Stud and Lance
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Post by newcoach on Oct 24, 2018 11:48:38 GMT -6
that's cute....mrs stud feels the same way....truth is you might change .08% of the paths that kids are on....for mrs stud that .08% change is worth the rest of the bs she has to deal with.....for stud, not so much.... I'm with stud on this one. I believe we can enhance good qualities that many kids already possess, we can modify behavior for students by holding athletics over their heads, and we can instill a sense of discipline that many kids will adhere to regardless of the coach. Sometimes I wonder how much change we actually make. I've been burned by a lot of kids that I've spent a lot of time, effort, and energy trying to change. I can think of many kids that I can say I changed their behavior but in reality I think they would have acted right regardless of the situation. I go into it knowing I could get burned. I cannot and will not let that fact stop me because at the end of the day they are kids and wont realize their being arsehole$$ till they are much older. I didnt. If I fix one out of ten then I did ok.
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Post by captainpablo on Oct 24, 2018 11:58:12 GMT -6
We do everything we can to make them productive citizens and better young men, but at the end of the day, that's still the job of the parents first and foremost.
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Post by Burnet44 on Oct 24, 2018 12:03:38 GMT -6
you play to win at home first then at school
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Post by acsl8ter on Oct 24, 2018 12:07:48 GMT -6
i believe if dlcks had wings your mouth would be an airport... Now that is funny
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Post by Burnet44 on Oct 24, 2018 12:13:10 GMT -6
i believe if dlcks had wings your mouth would be an airport... Now that is true
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