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Post by Hands11 on Jan 28, 2016 11:07:30 GMT -6
Man i got a friend going through exact same thing right now! I'm tellin ya, the quicker you get it done the better. He's back to normal now finally after dragging it out. It eats on ya man, as I'm sure you know. Figure it up to where you both get your daughter an equal amount of time and that should take care of anyone having to pay child support! Oh it suck donkey balls, but oh-well. I gave her the house, I have my own place. I get my kid 50% or more of the time, and we split our daughters childcare, insurance, gymnastic/dance classes. She makes significantly more than me, so i don't know how child support would actually work. She says she would rather just stay separated and keep the deal we have going. I'm not good with that idea. You're either married or divorced in my opinion, no in between. What do you tell someone (of the opposite sex) that asks you over to their place or wants to do something for dinner... it's hard to explain a separation to them. If she makes significantly more then she owes you money every month for the kid! Like skinny said, the judge will formulate that money she makes for it to benefit your daughter when she is with you. That's why she doesn't want to sign papers! It will cost her money!
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Post by skinny51 on Jan 28, 2016 11:07:56 GMT -6
I went with the rip the bandaid off mentality once I was served papers and went too temporary order and realized for men to get what they want it has to be a nasty battle in court. That would end up hurting my kids.
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Post by strongdog on Jan 28, 2016 11:09:27 GMT -6
Oh it suck donkey balls, but oh-well. I gave her the house, I have my own place. I get my kid 50% or more of the time, and we split our daughters childcare, insurance, gymnastic/dance classes. She makes significantly more than me, so i don't know how child support would actually work. She says she would rather just stay separated and keep the deal we have going. I'm not good with that idea. You're either married or divorced in my opinion, no in between. What do you tell someone (of the opposite sex) that asks you over to their place or wants to do something for dinner... it's hard to explain a separation to them. If she makes significantly more then she owes you money every month for the kid! Like skinny said, the judge will formulate that money she makes for it to benefit your daughter when she is with you. That's why she doesn't want to sign papers! It will cost her money! I had a buddy tell me that. If she does then she does. First priority is my kid, then I'll cover my arse
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Post by Hands11 on Jan 28, 2016 11:10:56 GMT -6
There you go!
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Post by Lebowski on Jan 28, 2016 11:11:51 GMT -6
I didnt have kids the first time.
I went to the Pott Co. Courthouse paid the $189.50. I had a former player of mine draw up the petition in court. She came and signed it. And went to court the following day and the marriage was dissolved.
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Post by skinny51 on Jan 28, 2016 11:15:47 GMT -6
technically, if you're not divorced and you go and poke your hot dog in a new bun, she could accuse you of adultery if and when divorce proceedings begin. could nail you for alimony, etc. Oklahoma is a "no fault" state. You can have all the adulterous relationships you want and that can't affect the divorce. Only way is if it is in the presence of minors or endangers them.
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Post by TOBC on Jan 28, 2016 11:17:06 GMT -6
well.....no shat. learn something new every day.
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Post by skinny51 on Jan 28, 2016 11:17:18 GMT -6
They do that on purpose. Can you imagine all the he said she said trials they would have if they tried to place blame? Jerry Springer style.
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Post by xdipster on Jan 28, 2016 11:22:03 GMT -6
I'm lucky. I outkicked my coverage in every way. It will never be simple or easy, especially dealing with me. And she has done it. She has paid an unfortunate price, as they all do. While we are on the sidelines or in the booth, the wives are in the stands with these parents and wanna be coaches. Remember that. She has learned to be a heck of a lot tougher, and has no problem letting A-holes know what the real story is. Not the sweet lil thing with the big rack I hooked up with. Now she cusses like a sailor and don't put up with much at all.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 28, 2016 11:35:00 GMT -6
I have been fortunate. My wife deals with a lot especially in this small town. I am not the easiest person to be around most of the time. Skinny knows me best on here and can vouch for the idiot I "used" to be.
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Post by skinny51 on Jan 28, 2016 11:36:27 GMT -6
I have been fortunate. My wife deals with a lot especially in this small town. I am not the easiest person to be around most of the time. Skinny knows me best on here and can vouch for the idiot I "used" to be. Maybe if i knew who you are....
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Post by Deleted on Jan 28, 2016 11:38:53 GMT -6
I have been fortunate. My wife deals with a lot especially in this small town. I am not the easiest person to be around most of the time. Skinny knows me best on here and can vouch for the idiot I "used" to be. Maybe if i knew who you are.... Suffal
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Post by skinny51 on Jan 28, 2016 11:40:47 GMT -6
Yes you WAS but I think we all did and you out kicked your coverage too...
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Post by Deleted on Jan 28, 2016 11:43:12 GMT -6
Yes you WAS but I think we all did and you out kicked your coverage too... Yes sir. Truest statement I've heard on the site.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2016 9:57:52 GMT -6
So much misinformation in this thread.
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Post by TOBC on Jan 29, 2016 10:08:00 GMT -6
enlighten us counselor.
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Post by skinny51 on Jan 29, 2016 10:42:50 GMT -6
Yes...enlighten us please...
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Post by Hands11 on Jan 29, 2016 10:43:54 GMT -6
Waiting....
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Post by Hitch on Jan 29, 2016 10:45:39 GMT -6
My wife is an absolute SAINT. She is unbelievable and I am unbelievably blessed as well.
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