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Post by givepullorpitch on Jan 27, 2016 15:49:01 GMT -6
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Post by Hands11 on Jan 28, 2016 8:07:21 GMT -6
Read this article last night! Great stuff!
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Post by strongdog on Jan 28, 2016 9:44:01 GMT -6
I unfortunately did not have an understanding wife. Been separated for about a year now, haven't filed yet.
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Post by Hands11 on Jan 28, 2016 10:26:57 GMT -6
I unfortunately did not have an understanding wife. Been separated for about a year now, haven't filed yet. What the h3ll you waiting on? |
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Post by strongdog on Jan 28, 2016 10:42:04 GMT -6
I don't know man, just dragging my feet I guess. We have a 3 year old, about to be 4, just making sure she's taken care of. We've already decided what kind of divorce we'd do. Something where you draw up a contract together and decide who gets what and how you do child support. If it doesn't get messy a lawyer signs it and gets approved by a judge. Cheap(er) and easier than the other ways I guess.
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Post by TOBC on Jan 28, 2016 10:45:24 GMT -6
my wife understands. she's a coach herself.
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Post by Hands11 on Jan 28, 2016 10:46:58 GMT -6
I don't know man, just dragging my feet I guess. We have a 3 year old, about to be 4, just making sure she's taken care of. We've already decided what kind of divorce we'd do. Something where you draw up a contract together and decide who gets what and how you do child support. If it doesn't get messy a lawyer signs it and gets approved by a judge. Cheap(er) and easier than the other ways I guess. Man i got a friend going through exact same thing right now! I'm tellin ya, the quicker you get it done the better. He's back to normal now finally after dragging it out. It eats on ya man, as I'm sure you know. Figure it up to where you both get your daughter an equal amount of time and that should take care of anyone having to pay child support! |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 28, 2016 10:50:32 GMT -6
My wife is awesome...... We struggled at first probably like everyone else but we have it figured out for the most part.... We still have some moments, but I am extremely blessed
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Post by skinny51 on Jan 28, 2016 10:51:17 GMT -6
I don't know man, just dragging my feet I guess. We have a 3 year old, about to be 4, just making sure she's taken care of. We've already decided what kind of divorce we'd do. Something where you draw up a contract together and decide who gets what and how you do child support. If it doesn't get messy a lawyer signs it and gets approved by a judge. Cheap(er) and easier than the other ways I guess. Man i got a friend going through exact same thing right now! I'm tellin ya, the quicker you get it done the better. He's back to normal now finally after dragging it out. It eats on ya man, as I'm sure you know. Figure it up to where you both get your daughter an equal amount of time and that should take care of anyone having to pay child support! Not true on the child support. It is state mandated and figured with a formula. My wife left me second day of practice this year. I had my girls all season. She served me papers in October and our divorce is actually final today. We sat down finally, once I realized she wasn't coming back, and split it all. Get kids 50/50 and I get to pay her $580 in support a month and extra expenses like medical bills I am responsible for 78% and she is responsible for 22%. It is all income based. Not negotiable. |
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Post by TOBC on Jan 28, 2016 10:53:20 GMT -6
you got phucked. figuratively speaking.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 28, 2016 10:54:28 GMT -6
Sorry to hear some of you guys going through this stuff..... I pray for everyone involved
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Post by skinny51 on Jan 28, 2016 10:55:17 GMT -6
Child support is law. Now when she graduates nursing school and makes more than I do then she will be the one paying.
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Post by TOBC on Jan 28, 2016 10:56:25 GMT -6
Child support is law. Now when she graduates nursing school and makes more than I do then she will be the one paying. she can drag that shat out. if she wanted anyway. that's brutal though. feel bad for you guys. especially for your kids who its gonna be the hardest on. |
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Post by skinny51 on Jan 28, 2016 10:56:59 GMT -6
Sorry to hear some of you guys going through this stuff..... I pray for everyone involved Thanks. It sucks. Hate divorce. I will live but worry about my girls. |
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Post by skinny51 on Jan 28, 2016 10:58:11 GMT -6
Child support is law. Now when she graduates nursing school and makes more than I do then she will be the one paying. she can drag that shat out. if she wanted anyway. that's brutal though. feel bad for you guys. especially for your kids who its gonna be the hardest on. No she can't. I put it in the divorce decree that we would realign child support in August 2016. If she doesn't comply she is in contempt. |
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Post by TOBC on Jan 28, 2016 11:00:46 GMT -6
boom. way to cya.
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Post by Hands11 on Jan 28, 2016 11:03:15 GMT -6
Child support is law. Now when she graduates nursing school and makes more than I do then she will be the one paying. I understand that but if the wife and husband make the same money, then there is no child support paid by either spouse if the child are split with equal time! |
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Post by strongdog on Jan 28, 2016 11:04:55 GMT -6
I don't know man, just dragging my feet I guess. We have a 3 year old, about to be 4, just making sure she's taken care of. We've already decided what kind of divorce we'd do. Something where you draw up a contract together and decide who gets what and how you do child support. If it doesn't get messy a lawyer signs it and gets approved by a judge. Cheap(er) and easier than the other ways I guess. Man i got a friend going through exact same thing right now! I'm tellin ya, the quicker you get it done the better. He's back to normal now finally after dragging it out. It eats on ya man, as I'm sure you know. Figure it up to where you both get your daughter an equal amount of time and that should take care of anyone having to pay child support! Oh it suck donkey balls, but oh-well. I gave her the house, I have my own place. I get my kid 50% or more of the time, and we split our daughters childcare, insurance, gymnastic/dance classes. She makes significantly more than me, so i don't know how child support would actually work. She says she would rather just stay separated and keep the deal we have going. I'm not good with that idea. You're either married or divorced in my opinion, no in between. What do you tell someone (of the opposite sex) that asks you over to their place or wants to do something for dinner... it's hard to explain a separation to them. |
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Post by strongdog on Jan 28, 2016 11:06:50 GMT -6
I will add this though, we are on very good terms with each other. Agree on everything and she's a good mom, so for what it's worth..
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Post by TOBC on Jan 28, 2016 11:07:09 GMT -6
technically, if you're not divorced and you go and poke your hot dog in a new bun, she could accuse you of adultery if and when divorce proceedings begin. could nail you for alimony, etc.
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